English phrase from drama scenes

What Does "that's not the" Mean?

Learn what "that's not the" means, when people say it, and how to use it naturally in English.

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That's not the way to say

It means the speaker thinks someone’s greeting was rude or unfriendly.

From The Escort, Episode 18

When do people say this?

Scene Context

The speaker criticizes someone for their greeting and implies it is not friendly.

Usage Scenario

Use this when correcting someone’s bad manners in a light argument or teasing way. It can sound sarcastic or scolding depending on tone.

Better ways to say it

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That’s not the way to say hello to a friend.
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That’s not how you greet a friend.
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Is that any way to say hello to a friend?

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