Learn useful ways to say "it's not really" in English with drama examples and natural alternatives.

This means the speaker is downplaying blame and saying the person could not help themselves.
From Married To A Stranger, Episode 20
The speaker excuses someone's lack of self-control in a light way.
Use it to comfort someone who feels guilty or embarrassed. It can sound understanding, but the phrasing is a bit indirect.
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