English phrase from drama scenes
What Does "it only pushes them away" Mean?
Learn what "it only pushes them away" means, when people say it, and how to use it naturally in English.
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I always thought being tough was gonna make people respect me, but it only pushes them away.
It means the speaker believes this action will make the other person withdraw or lose interest.
From School Hall, Episode 32
When do people say this?
Scene Context
The speaker says a certain approach only makes people pull away.
Usage Scenario
Use this when warning that a behavior has the opposite effect you want. It is common in relationship advice or conflict discussions.
Better ways to say it
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It only pushes them away.
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That only pushes them away.
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It will push them away.
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