What Does "but we don't let that define us" Mean?
Learn what "but we don't let that define us" means, when people say it, and how to use it naturally in English.
But we don't let that define us. Okay?
It means they refuse to let one problem or mistake determine their identity or future.
From Never Mess With A Badass Girl, Episode 46
When do people say this?
Scene Context
The speaker is saying they will not let a bad event define who they are.
Usage Scenario
Use this in supportive conversations about setbacks, mistakes, or difficult experiences. It is uplifting and works well in personal speech or motivational writing.
Better ways to say it
We won't let that define us.
Don't let that define you.
That doesn't define us.
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